Release your massive expectations of yourselves to fit the world and instead dance with it. Allow yourself to be revealed unto it, and see what the world has to say in response. Some of the great creators upon the planet Earth, your Salvador Dalis, your Picassos and all the rest, were willing to put themselves upon the surface and allow human beings to look upon their beings and have opinions and judgments. It doesn't really matter after all, my dear friends. What someone says about you says more about him or her than it does about you.